Simple Words

"No matter how bad a person is, they would always want to be remembered as a good person." Simple words but yet reminded me. I would always wonder, why do I tend to forget my problems? Why do I act this way? What was the cause for all of this? The answer was in those simple words. No matter how bad a person would hurt me, in the end I would remember their good deeds toward me. Why? Because of them, I should be grateful. Without them, I would have never mature and would be stuck in my childish behavior. There are also another reason, people would say that, people tends to remember other people's bad deeds instead of the good deeds. Somehow, I realized that it was true. Therefore, I would like to reverse this proposition. How would it be like if we remember good deeds instead of bad deeds? Besides, bad deeds are only done a few times, while good deeds are done much more. However, people wouldn't realized those things. 

"Problems are not meant to be forgotten, but yet to be solved". Another simple words that remind me. It's not that I would directly forget all my problems without having them solved. It would make me as a total coward. I always try to confront all of my problems, so that in the end I wouldn't be curious of how things goes in the future. Then why do I forgot them? Piling up your memories with your problems, would only brings you pain of the past. What's the use of remembering it, if you already try to solve it as hard as you can. Of course, solving doesn't always mean that in the end it would lead you to the way of how you want it to be. Solving means, it could also go the opposite way of how you want it to be, as long it is for the better goods. That's why, no need to remember it right? And of course, by remembering it, it would bring up revenge and hatred towards the other parties, which I think is a great waste bothering yourself with those kind of things. You only live once, so either you live your life to the fullest with no regrets or you live your life badly with full of bad emotions. 

All of the problems I face, surely created the mature side of me. No matter how hard I try to reach my goals, there are limits such as respecting other people. Some of the people would object these limits when I said "live your life to the fullest". Well,it's true. It varies among people. But for me, hurting others are not a part of reaching my goals. My aim is to reach my hopes by considering others, so that it will become your individual success. It's not about individuality, it's about togetherness. The feeling of reaching something, without your selfishness has its own essence of pride.