"I'd to leave you because I love you". People said that you need to experience things to understand things. Yet, this quote bothers my mind. It may be implemented in special situation such as leaving because of death. But leaving because of other things? Somehow it feels too cliche for me.
It just doesn't feel right, leaving someone because of loving them. Too selfish, ignorant, and indecisive are just the right characters to be inserted although those people are known as the kindest in the world. Love that is being responded to each other, are meant to be together. Why do you need to leave, if the person you love are happy with you, no matter what consequences are there for them? No need to leave them, because they already knew what obstacles might be there for them if they are with you.
Selfish I say, because they never see that the ones that are being left behind are the most hurt-ed side. Why? Not because it's a heartbreaking moment, but it's because they don't know and they don't understand why they must be left behind? What fault had they done? Because it's just too irrational. They are the most hurt-ed side because they have to keep on holding to those feelings that left them clueless. Heartbreaking is a just temporary pain, but longing becomes eternal, though they knew, that their love ones will never come.
So why do people need to leave the ones they love because they love them?
I'm just saying, if you are committed to build a relationship, then you must strive everything even though it gonna costs your partner some hardships. But hardships always will come, no matter who the couples are, because you are trying to build a story of two person in one situation, not just some random individual trying to get along with their surroundings. It's a total different thing. I remember a friend of mine told me, "in a relationship, there are no more, I or You, but there's only we." So in a relationship being ready just comes with the flow. All you need is a commitment to strive it together. Because with commitment, you just have to stand up for yourself and know that you have accepted all the weaknesses of yourself and your partner.
So couples out there, stop thinking you have to leave your partner because you're not good for them. Because if they already accepted you for whatever you are, it means they are very happy being with you. For if you leave them, it's just the same thing you're making them unhappy.
That's just my point of view, to answer people's love problem. After analyzing some of my friend's problem, I decided to make this conclusion of mine. I hope some people will understand what I'm trying to say.
It just doesn't feel right, leaving someone because of loving them. Too selfish, ignorant, and indecisive are just the right characters to be inserted although those people are known as the kindest in the world. Love that is being responded to each other, are meant to be together. Why do you need to leave, if the person you love are happy with you, no matter what consequences are there for them? No need to leave them, because they already knew what obstacles might be there for them if they are with you.
Selfish I say, because they never see that the ones that are being left behind are the most hurt-ed side. Why? Not because it's a heartbreaking moment, but it's because they don't know and they don't understand why they must be left behind? What fault had they done? Because it's just too irrational. They are the most hurt-ed side because they have to keep on holding to those feelings that left them clueless. Heartbreaking is a just temporary pain, but longing becomes eternal, though they knew, that their love ones will never come.
So why do people need to leave the ones they love because they love them?
I'm just saying, if you are committed to build a relationship, then you must strive everything even though it gonna costs your partner some hardships. But hardships always will come, no matter who the couples are, because you are trying to build a story of two person in one situation, not just some random individual trying to get along with their surroundings. It's a total different thing. I remember a friend of mine told me, "in a relationship, there are no more, I or You, but there's only we." So in a relationship being ready just comes with the flow. All you need is a commitment to strive it together. Because with commitment, you just have to stand up for yourself and know that you have accepted all the weaknesses of yourself and your partner.
So couples out there, stop thinking you have to leave your partner because you're not good for them. Because if they already accepted you for whatever you are, it means they are very happy being with you. For if you leave them, it's just the same thing you're making them unhappy.
That's just my point of view, to answer people's love problem. After analyzing some of my friend's problem, I decided to make this conclusion of mine. I hope some people will understand what I'm trying to say.
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